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Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Themed Engagement Pictures


Your wedding is surrounded by themes. Themed showers, themed reception. They always say that the invitation is the first picture of what the reception will look like. But how about taking it one step further?

Think themed engagement pictures. Our running joke is that I'm from the city, and he's a small town boy. We're incorporating my "city bling" with this "country charm" by using pinks, and natural earth elements in our reception decor. But it all started with our themed engagement pictures. Our photographer, Crystal Beilke of Facets of Crystal Photography, captured the essence of our theme, "Small town boy meets big city girl". And did it beautifully. Try your own theme. Historic, naturistic, classis contemporary, artsy. The skies the limit. But rememeber to pull from the essence of your relationship and it makes the pictures all that more meaningful.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Ways to be wedding savvy and save!


As I plan my wedding, I'm finding there are always ways to cut corners without having to look cheap. Here's 10 tips on saving money on your big day.
1.) Trim your guest list
Remember that each person adds a significant amount to the overall cost of the wedding. It's an extra plated dinner, an extra program, invitation and so on. Don't invite anyone you haven't talked to in 5 years. You can also decide to have an "adult only reception". Limit co-workers from the office that aren't close friends. Remember if you feel "preassured" to invite someone, they probably don't need to be on your list.

2.) Save postage on your wedding invitations
Postage is determined by weight so keep it simple. Don't add extra blotted paper, and another envlope. You could even ask guests to reply via email or on a wedding website if you have one.

3.) Shop samples sales and the internet for cheap wedding dresses.
If you're a size 6,8 or 10 like me this could save you TONS. When I came across a local bridal shop running their annual dress sale, I thought I'd check it out. I sort of picked through the racks but ended up finding a $1100 dress for only $98!! It will require a little in alterations but they are cheaper than a full price dress. There are often internet sites for used or never worn items that are going for a much lesser rate than what they were originally purchased for. It could save you hundreds.

4.) Change the day of the week
This can be the difference of thousands between even a Friday and Saturday. Choosing a Thursday or Sunday will often boast better deals from all your vendors since there is less demand.

5.) Save money on church decorations
Depending on the time of year, you might luck out and have the ability to piggy back on their already decorated for the holidays space. If not simplicity can save you so opt for some candels to create ambiance for less.

6.) Learn to ask!
You can't get what you don't ask for. Vendors won't offer additional freebies. There is always a chance they will do the slide show for free, or through in popcorn for later in the reception for nothing. Also consider asking your friends and family for help in areas they might specialize or know someone.

7.) DIY
This may cost you time, but it certainly saves you money and it often has a much more personal touch. Get your wedding party together, throw on some music so it doesn't feel like a production line, and power through invitations, favors and centerpieces.

8.) Look for cheap wedding food and drink
Weigh out similar options and have your caterer price them out so you can compare. What's a plated dinner versus a buffet, and what's chicken cost versus beef. You could consider drink tickets for your guests, reserving the open bar for only the cocktail hour, or buy beer and have the hard alcohol cash. There are a variety of options for every budget so compare and contrast.

9.) Get online!
Try Craigslist and Ebay. Brides often resell used reception decor that's still in great shape and for cheap. Make sure to look for trusted sellers and calculate shipping but it could make a difference in your bottom line.

10.) Consider cheap wedding invitations
You could print your own invites on your home computer using software found online. Most stationary stores carry heavier paper that can be used in your printer. Making a lot of invitations? Go to a bulk paper warehouse store where they can cut the costs of paper and often let you use their supplies to cut professionally.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Photofetti-Personalized Confetti


Photofetti, who has advertised with go2wed.com since 2007 is being nationally recognized in Special Events Magazine. They make a unique product that it a great accent for any event. Their "confetti" is manufactured with the pictures YOU send to them, and then given the color of your choice.


Based out of Lakeville, all their orders can be done online. You choose the pictures, colors, and style of your photofetti, and its sent right to your door.


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Monday, June 22, 2009

Saving your marriage before it starts!


As a fellow bride myself, I am going through all of this planning and preparation with all of you. One part of the prepartion process that often gets overlooked, is the planning for the marriage. Lots of thought goes into the wedding day, the colors, the flowers, and so on. But sometimes we forget about what happens all the days after.


I have been priveledged to be introduced to the book "Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts" by a couple, Les and Leslie Parrott. They focus on seven key questions to help couples identify and overcome stumbling blocks to a building a healthy, lifelong marriage. This book offers separate workbooks for men and women which co-indcide with the book.


The chapters are short but effective. Even the men have found ways to enjoy it. It helps you discover better ways of communicate and help to address some issues that you may not have talked about yet.


Together they teach the skills needed to transition from the “single” life to the “married” life. This is a wonderful book that was introduced to us as part of our pre-marital counseling. They offer some insight not on what to avoid, but some of the myths we are all guilty of believing in.

After reading the first few chapters, couples learn the certain types of expectations to avoid after marriage.


This books is great for getting the ball rolling on some topics that aren't always easy to transition into. Face your past, work through the present all for a wonderful and successful marriage future.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Celebrate with a small footprint

Weddings have always been an opportunity to step outside of the box and create an event that fits you as a couple. But "going green" doesn't mean that your wedding will be any less elegant or special. But it's an opportunity to take a stand for the environment.

One way is to use LOCAL vendors. Contracting services for food and flowers drastically cuts down on transportation costs which reduces carbon emissions. There is a great variety of floral options that can be grown here. Talk to your local florist about locally home grown options. They are well educated in what flowers bloom in certain climates and the seasons they look the best.

Second, with invitations taking at least 3% typically of your total wedding budget, printing on recycled paper is a great way to save mother earth. You can print everything from your invitations to save-the-date and reply cards on this paper. Ask your local supplier what options you have. For a completely green option, opt to break the mold and send them out electronically. Mentioned to your guests your objective and they will be more than excited to support your green goals.

Lastly, take hold of the "something borrowed" mantra. An alternative to dropping thousands on a wedding dress is going vintage. Find a great seamstress and make it your own. Look for ideas prior to going shopping to have an idea about what sort of palette you want to begin with.

For LOCAL wedding vendors, be sure to check out go2wed.com for all your wedding planning needs.

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Wednesday, May 27, 2009

No cake for me!


Wedding cakes have always been traditional, and are gourgoues pieces of art. But with every aspect of the wedding industry, times are changing. Couples are gravitating towards new and creative ways to satisfy their guests' sweet tooth. One Rochester couple will treat their guests to Snickers Ice Cream Bars in place of a traditional cake.

I myself will be using jars I found at garage sales, and buying candy in bulk in our wedding colors to adorn our cake table along with favor bags for our guests to take the delicious candies home. Even Martha Stewart (picture left), has favored this new tradition. Many caterers and bakers that traditionally have done wedding cakes are jumping on board offering candy bars and dessert buffets. Dessert buffets are another way to offer guests a tasty treat while breaking the mold offering treats like mousses, or chocolate covered goodies.
Ask your coordinator or caterer for suggestions on how to try adding a twist to your cake table.

Friday, May 15, 2009

New ways of funding your wedding

http://cbs11tv.com/video/?id=29734@ktvt.dayport.com
Bride Gets Dr Pepper Co. To Sponsor Wedding
VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. (AP) ―

A bride's unusual effort to raise funds online for her wedding has led to a decidedly unconventional result — corporate sponsorship of her special day. Pinched for cash, Virginia Beach hairdresser Kelly Gray went on eBay to offer a spot in her bridal party to the highest bidder. But when the auction was over Wednesday, the winner was not a woman eager to wear taffeta, but a representative of Dr Pepper Snapple Group. The company will donate $10,000 and drinks for Gray's April 19 wedding to Karl Gau. She said the company also plans to launch a Web site to help her find a bridesmaid or provide a surprise guest for the slot. The Dr Pepper people may have taken notice of Gray's auction because the brand was mentioned in a local newspaper article about her offbeat effort to fund her ceremony. Gwen Lala, Gray's co-worker, suggested she try eBay because a Dr Pepper can was selling on the online auction site for $400.

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